Tom Frearson’s path to leadership was forged not in classrooms, but through the crucible of real-world adversity. Forgoing a traditional university education, Tom enlisted in the Royal Marines, earning the coveted Green Beret and deploying with 40 Commando. His military service included advanced training with the United States Marine Corps at the Mountain Warfare Training Center in California, and a frontline operational tour in Afghanistan’s Helmand Province. As a qualified Combat Medic, he balanced tactical operations with the vital responsibility of preserving life in high-pressure environments.​

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Following his military career, Tom transitioned into maritime security, leading international missions against piracy across high-risk regions, including the Horn of Africa. He was responsible for building, training and leading multinational teams tasked with protecting commercial vessels, ensuring operational effectiveness and legal compliance under extreme conditions.

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With qualifications as a Mountain Leader, Tom is passionate about taking teams out of their comfort zones—using the power of nature and adventure to challenge thinking, unlock potential, and accelerate growth. His extensive credentials in the wellness sector, including fitness, triathlon, and health coaching, enable him to approach leadership development with a high-performance mindset that’s both balanced and sustainable.

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As Operations Manager for one of London’s largest outdoor fitness organisations, he led a team of trainers while supporting over 1,000 clients—developing strong teams, building culture, and driving performance at scale. This experience laid the foundation for Be Fearsome, the company Tom founded in 2018 to deliver bespoke coaching and team development programmes for organisations across the UK.

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Tom’s coaching is rooted in transformational and servant leadership principles, shaped by the ethos of Extreme Ownership. He works with individuals and teams to unlock resilience, high performance, and clarity—believing that leadership is about example, responsibility, and consistent, courageous action.

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Alongside his coaching, Tom is a sought-after motivational speaker. His talks energise audiences by blending raw personal experience with sharp leadership insight—covering themes such as performance under pressure, building resilient teams, decision-making in uncertainty, and leading through adversity. Whether in the boardroom or on stage, he inspires people to raise their standards, align their efforts, and lead with intent.

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Now based in North London with his wife and two children, Tom remains committed to helping others lead fearlessly—on the frontlines of business, life, and personal growth.